The room was not impressively large, even by Manhattan apartment-house standards, but its accumulated furnishings might have lent a snug appearance to a banquet hall in Valhalla. —J.D. Salinger, Franny and Zooey
Clearing the Drains
As I cleared these drains, I was struck by how little it took to slow them down. A small blockage eventually became a big blockage rendering the drain nearly useless and thereby frustrating. Our worlds are full of small things slowing us down and this is especially evident with technology. Why does my computer seem to slow with time? What do you mean my online storage is full? Somehow, someway, we accumulate a vast array of bits and bytes that conspire to slow us down.
A Collection of Baggage
However, it doesn’t stop there. The accumulation of baggage slowing us down occurs in almost every aspect of our lives:
- We can’t park in our garage because we’ve got old tools, paint cans, bikes, sports equipment etc.
- Outdated inventory seems to grow in corners and on shelves in the warehouse.
- Paper piles build on our desks and in our files.
- Trash, articles of clothing, kid’s homework and various articles seem to materialize in our cars.
- Arguments turn to resentment and we hold the ultimate baggage in our heads and hearts way too long.
- We read or listen to things that strike fear or doubt into our hearts. Sometimes we even call this entertainment.
- We add apps upon apps or we watch show upon show instead of engaging in meaningful ways with the world around us.
- We eat more than we need, drink more than we should, and wonder why we seem to be carrying more around the middle than we’d like. Talk about slowing us down!
After clearing the drains, I was amazed at how well they worked. The blockage occurred slowly over time so it was barely noticeable until it became very noticeable. The same thing happens with us. We accumulate stuff that slows us down and we don’t notice until we wake up one day realizing that it is like an anchor holding us back.
Clearing the drains is pretty straightforward. Make up your mind, make sure you have the right tools, and invest the time to just do it. Much of the baggage in our lives works the same way. We simply have to recognize it and commit ourselves to the process of purging it.
Unfortunately, it often isn’t simple. Distractions, time, frustration, and a collection of other excuses seem to get in the way. The slow build of clutter is so subtle, so effortless. Its removal can be far more complicated. Why? Because it often requires changes in behavior. It might be easy to clear a stack of files from your desk or flush some drains. However, forgiving someone, clearing your mind, or losing weight demands so much more.
Or does it? Make up your mind. Make sure you have the right tools. Just do it. It doesn’t have to be complicated. You are built to accomplish things, to succeed. Human beings are capable of unbelievable achievement when motivated by goals and the will to reach them. Recognizing that something is slowing you down is Step 1. After that, you simply apply your determination as you’ve done a thousand times before and make it happen. Period.
As for the Berry house, now we’ve got smoothly running drains. That garage could use a bit of help and the laptop is definitely showing signs of extra baggage. Hmmm, I wonder what else might be slowing us down…
Outstanding and inspirational, despite the rather pedestrian nature of the task. Now I’m off to clean my drains.
Thank you Kelly! I truly appreciate you sharing your thoughts (and humor :).
I bet that was a lot of hair! I like the metaphor, and I’ll keep it with me. I agree that humans have the will to accomplish great things, but I believe a big part of the problem lies in acknowledging when you are being slowed down. Sometimes it seems difficult to now exactly what is the cause of the build up. It takes many of us longer to figure out what is clogging our pipes, if you will. Part of my success is just identifying the clog. Great article. Thanks.
Thanks Jessica. Great thoughts!